I think we've all been there. You have guests coming to your home in a matter of hours, and there's just one or two more things you want to cross of your list before they arrive. With DIYers, this sickness seems to be magnified. It's not just the "we need to vacuum" or "we need to run out to the store for ice." In our house at least, it tends to be items on our checklist like "we need to finish tiling the front vestibule" or "we need to landscape the backyard" all in a matter of a few hours.
Take this weekend for instance. Alex was sweet enough to once again agree to host a small get together to celebrate my birthday. Nothing fancy, just a few close neighbors coming over to hang out in the backyard, have a glass or two of wine, and enjoy the evening. On paper -- piece of cake. In reality -- it always causes me an inordinate amount of stress.
I'm a total control freak, and when I entertain, I have every last detail planned out. I have my menu done days, if not weeks in advance, and I even go as far as to pre-set my table with my serving pieces, noting with post its where I'll set each dish. I color coordinate. I develop themes. In essence, I usually go way over the top, to a fault.
Here's a visual of the table I set for a small Valentine's Day dinner party I threw earlier this year. Yep, those are handmade paper cutouts of hearts hanging from the chandelier. Someone please stop me.
But this weekend Alex was in charge. Only six hours before guests were due to arrive, we had no menu. Not enough beer. And a backyard in desperate need of planting, mulching, watering and sweeping. So we set off for a frenzied trip to Target, Lowes, and Trader Joes to pick up the essentials. Here's a snapshot of our Target shopping cart, filled with our party essentials. Now at t-minus 5 hours until guests arrive.
Then over to Lowes for the backyard beautification items, including several bags of dirt and mulch that we needed to spread around the beds. T-minus 4.5 hours.
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