Bing bong.

That's the sound of the doorbell as you stand awkwardly on someone's doorstep waiting for them to invite you into their home and join the party. If you're a bit introverted like me, the awkwardness of entering a room full of people you probably don't know is only intensified if you're standing there empty handed.

Not only do I appreciate the ice breaker of offering up a gift upon arrival, I feel the gesture of bringing a gift to thank the host or hostess for their efforts is a must. Previously I've covered ways to spruce up the typical bottle of wine offering to make hostess gifts more special, but today I want to talk specifically about housewarming gifts.

So what does "proper etiquette" dictate on this subject? Well, according to Wikipedia, gifts are customary but not necessary, and usually consist of something that can be used in the new house or enjoyed during the party. Interestingly enough, bluebirds were once given as they were believed to bless the new house with happiness and good luck, but in modern day it is more customary to provide bluebird-themed paraphernalia such as china. (I've never heard that one before!)

Remember, customary does not always equate to "tasteful."

Pineapples are also common housewarming gifts as the pineapple has served as a symbol of hospitality and warm welcome through the history of the Americas. Ironically enough, the pineapple is also the symbol of Alexandria, so I particularly love this gesture.

Would a bottle of wine work? Sure, assuming your hosts enjoy wine or would serve it at the party or to friends and family, we've given this gift often, especially in a pinch. But for close friends I think it's nice to go a little further to give them something that's meaningful or has more thought behind it.


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Though we've devoted many Toolbox Tuesdays talking about very cool and "sexy" heavy duty tools such as saws and nail guns, it is important to remember the critical role the smaller and more general devices play in our everyday DIYing. When I think of things I'm absolutely sure to include on my list of "must haves," there are few tools more simplistic, utilitarian, and useful than the flat carpenter's pencil.

If you don't already own and use them frequently, you've probably seen them in your hardware store, or perhaps tucked behind the ear of a general contractor or tradesman. However, it wasn't until I learned about this miraculous little pencil that I realized its true usefulness and function.

The traditional carpenter's pencil has been in use since the late 17th century in Germany and is a thick leaded wood pencil that you can buy in bulk boxes. Unlike a normal round or hexagonal lead pencil, the carpenter's pencil has been specifically designed to be a multi purpose aide when doing woodworking, construction, or just about any DIY project in need of a clearly visible and precise mark.

The first thing you notice is that the typical carpenter's pencil's shape is wide and flat. This flat design allows the pencil to be set down or dropped and it will not roll away from where you are working. Beyond the idea that the shape keeps it from wandering away, it also allows the pencil to be easily placed behind your ear, or in your pocket, tool belt, or tool box and easily found while feeling around.

Though the shape of the pencil helps its convenience, it also lends itself to its excellent function. The measurements of the standard carpenter's pencil are consistent and deliberate, and I had no clue why until someone explained it to me. The width is usually 19/32" (sometimes 1/2") across the flat side, and 1/4" wide on the skinny side. These measurements make the pencil extremely versatile. The fact it is 1/4" wide means you can use it as a standard width spacer for things like decking. Additionally, the center point of the lead and where the edge of the lead falls in relation to the pencil edge means you can use the flat side against another surface to scribe with a 1/16" offset. Essentially, the various widths are there to help you use the pencil as a quick and easy guide when working on your various projects. 

If you don't need precision scribing or lines, the lead of the carpenter's is thick and tough, and it marks rough and non wood surfaces very well. I've used it to mark measurements on cement, cast iron, lead and copper -- well, really just about anything. The only thing that this pencil typically has a problem marking on is damp lumber (but just about anything has problems with that).


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Here at Old Town Home, one of our members is particularly well known for wanting to rush success and put the proverbial "cart before the horse." This sometimes results in more effort or angst when completing a project, but always makes for a slightly more adventurous journey.

If you're wondering who this could be and you guessed that person is Lulu or Mel, I'd have to tell you to keep trying. If you thought to yourself "it's gotta be Alex!" Unfortunately, you'd be wrong. Hmm, that only leaves one member of the crew as the primary culprit.

You see, Wendy can be a little bit, how do I put this, agressive when it comes to the actual execution of a project. This has to do with a slight lack of patience and an ever growing desire to get things completed. I can't really blame her all that much, I mean, she's been working on this house for over nine years now. At this point it's just become a fact of DIY home renovation. If I'm cutting in while painting a room, I'd better speed up because Wendy is already on my heels rolling the wall. If we're staining something and I'm not done sanding, I'd better wrap it up otherwise we're going to have a lot of dust in the stain. Do you get my drift?

Last week Wendy's slight impatience reared its head when we decided to jump forward a bit with the front tree box before getting the fence installed. I must say, Wendy's opinion that "we won't ever get anything done if I don't force us to move forward," though a bit abrasive, may not be that far from the truth. 

Last week we talked at length about those pesky tree roots and the bone rattling and knuckle crunching effort that was necessary to remove them. We'll, we were so excited to finally be free enough of roots that we headed out to Home Depot the very next day to pick up some plants that we could put in the ground. We also bought several more bags of soil and an eight foot length of metal garden edging, then rushed home in an attempt to beat the rain.

Just as we got home, the rain started up, so we decided to just get the plants in the ground so they could get a good soaking. To establish the look she wanted, Wendy placed the plants in their various future homes so that we could take a step back and assess.

It's a good thing I bought Wendy a good pair of Wellies for Christmas, they really came in handy when we were planting in the downpour. I don't know why we felt so gung-ho on getting the stuff in the ground that day, but we were undeterred by a little rain.

In the end it was not too shabby. We were able to take a final step back, give a few approving grunts and head nods, were able to appreciate just how far the bed had come, then we headed inside to dry off.


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Alex and I will be the first to admit that our DIY skills are lacking when it comes to gardening. Plastering, plumbing, electrical, and woodworking don't scare us, but ask us to make selections in the outdoor center at a local nursery and our knees begin to quake. But there's only one way to fix that -- call in the experts! No, I'm kidding of course, you know that's not our style. In our home, the way to fix our green thumb deficiency is to talk to friends, family, nursery staff, read books, research, and try, try again. 

Last year we made our first attempt at building a raised bed organic vegetable garden in our back yard. After reading All New Square Foot Gardening by Mel Bartholomew, we felt it was a simplified approach and might be easy enough for black thumbs like us to tackle. So under Lulu's watchful eye, we got to work by first pulling up a small section of bricks to make room for the 10x2 garden, followed by creating the new bed, preparing the soil, selecting the veggies to plant, and popping them in the ground. If you're interested in the whole project from the start, you can read all about last year's three part square foot garden series.

  1. First Steps - Selecting the Location
  2. Building the Garden Bed
  3. Preparing the Soil and Planting

All this hard work left us with a great foundation for our new vegetable plants. Last year we planted cabbage, Ichiban eggplant, spinach, sugar snap peas, kale, chives, lavender, beets, and spring onions. 

We carefully cared for our new green friends all summer long, and truthfully were met with mixed results. The beets died a slow death, the sugar snap peas wilted before their big debut, and the spinach never showed up to the party. Oh, and what we thought was broccoli was actually cabbage, but we didn't know this and just kept waiting for the broccoli to show up. So by the time the black thumb crew realized it, we had even let the cabbage go to waste. Feel free to shake your head in disgust along with us at that one.

On the positive side, the chives and lavender flourished. And we even harvested four eggplants, a couple spring onions, and a good supply of chives and kale throughout the season. In our house, we consider that a modest success for year one. 

And so that brings us to year two. Undeterred by a few flops in 2011 and armed with a year of experience under our tool belts, we set off to get ready for another year of organic square foot gardening. The bed had weathered a bit during the cold months. The white wash isn't as crisp and a few faint cracks in the wood are starting to show. 


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If you're a fan of This Old House like I am, you've undoubtedly seen the recent focus on the new EPA guidelines and restrictions when it comes to hazardous materials handling by contractors. From lead paint stripping to asbestos removal, the workers covered in white suits look like nuclear facility works, and the buildings or homes, covered in scaffolding and plastic, appear to be harboring ET. Though it's one thing to see it on TV, it's another to see it in person.

Living in the historic district, there's no shortage of ongoing construction projects at any given time. On our many runs or walks with Lulu, we often ooooohhhh and aaaahhhh at the new scaffolding that we see set up at various houses.

We talk about the tuck pointing taking place, or new copper roof and gutters being installed.

And we reminisce about the long and torturous days when we did our own siding work.


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